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mardi 22 mai 2012

Coffee and Cigarettes

What I Will Miss in France:
  1. Mira, Marc, Preston, both Brittanys, Elizabeth, Cat, Tyler, Meagan, Karima, Iris, Sofie, Margaret, Ramiro, Ana, Xi, and all the other lovely friends I've made.
  2. Baguettes
  3. Pastries
  4. Paninis 
  5. Boulangeries in general
  6. Fresh petit café machines in Every Single public building
  7. An abundance of Nutella
  8. Color-coded currancy
  9. Good, cheap wine
  10. Embuscade
  11. The ability to drink legally
  12. Going to the bars with a group of amazing friends
  13. Getting free drinks from the cute bartender
  14. Cobblestone streets
  15. Walking down the street surrounded by people speaking French
  16. Speaking French everyday
  17. Public transportation
  18. Traveling by train
  19. Cheap flights
  20. Random day trips to really cool towns nearby
  21. The ability to spend the weekend in a different country for only a couple hundred dollars
  22. The ocean
  23. Beautiful, old stone buildings
  24. Wrought-iron scroll-work on windows and doors
  25. Cathedrals everywhere
  26. The way everyone makes an effort to look nice No Matter What they are doing
  27. H&M, Zara, Pull and Bear, Mika
  28. Carrefour
  29. Carrefour chocolate
  30. Gouda aux grains de cumin, Edam, Camembert
  31. European butter
  32. Walking through William the Conqueror's castle
  33. Seeing people at a café drinking beer at noon
  34. Window shopping at the chocolatiers and bonboneries
  35. Creperies
  36. Laying on the grassy hills, reading a good book
  37. The Sunday market
  38. Public gardens
  39. Scarves
  40. Horribly awesome Franglish
  41. The automatic comradery of finding another anglophone in France
  42. Laid back and fun professors
  43. Thin, lightweight textbooks
  44. The ability to openly watch the people around me without it being considered rude 
  45. The common use of military time 
  46. Beautifully painted carrousels in every city and village
What I'm Excited to Get Back to in the States:
  1. My ENTIRE family, Martha, Mama and Papa, Petie, Jess, Kels, Christine, Tay, Jewels, Rhett, Heather, Olive, and all my other lovely friends back home
  2. Gumdo
  3. A haircut
  4. Driving (once I get the whole "vehicle" thing nailed down haha)
  5. Meals that don't involve pasta
  6. An oven
  7. Peanut butter
  8. Mountain Dew
  9. Crackers
  10. All of my books
  11. Buying new books
  12. All of the clothes I had to leave behind
  13. All the shoes I had to leave behind
  14. My bed
  15. Mostly predictable weather
  16. Wearing dresses without getting weird looks
  17. English as my default language
  18. Sasha, Leo, Sydney, Bean, Aurora
  19.  The ability to download new music
  20. Taking my phone for granted
  21. Being able to plug in more than one thing at a time
  22. Wifi
  23. A shower that's bigger than one square foot
  24. A bathtub
  25. A decent washer and dryer
  26. Giving tours of UND
  27. Official processes that are SIMPLE
  28. Not having to bring my passport, student ID, and a packet of official papers to take a final
  29. Not having to worry about failing a final because I didn't understand a key word in the question
  30. Watching my bank account grow instead of shrink
  31. Not having to factor in a 7 hour difference just to talk to my mum
  32. The ability to call Martha and Christine to tell them something rather than planning a Skype date
  33. Not having to worry if what I'm about to buy will fit in my suitcase...
  34. Magazines
  35. Netflix
  36. A decent running track
  37. A decent gym
  38. Going to the movies
  39. Popcorn
  40. When "be there at 10am" actually means 10am instead of maybe 10:20... 
  41. Hugs! 
  42. National holidays that mean an actual day off of classes, not just postponed classes... 
À bientôt mes amis!
Gros bisous!! 
Morgan

The Tree-stars Are Falling!

So, I know that I'm kind of spamming you guys with posts right now, but I have so much to catch you all up on!!! It's been a few weeks since I got back from spring break and there hasn't been a whole lot that's really exciting but I feel like I owe you something extra since I had such a long dry spell! Besides, as I enter the single digits on the days-left-in-Normandy countdown, I feel myself needing to rant about everything to everyone because I just can't contain anything anymore.
When I got back from Madrid and after I had slept off my post-travel coma, the first thing I did was invite Mira over for dinner because holy crap did I miss her!! I have no idea what I'm going to do when we can't see each other for a couple of years... But anyways, I had already had three meals of pasta since arriving home and I was already sick of it, so I decided to make the taco salad that I had with Kirk and Sarah!! It turned out really well (mostly because all I had to do was cut up veggies and heat up some canned beans haha) and it was delicious and a really nice change.  I also had a bottle of cidre to go with the meal, but when Mira tried to open it, the cork shot off and cidre went everywhere! All I could do was stand back and laugh -- the only two bottles of cidre that I had ever bought both exploded.  Just my luck, right?  Mira and I still each got a couple good glasses out of the bottle, though.  We ended up talking well into the night, trading stories and just chatting in general.  
I had a few days to relax before we had to go back to class, but I think that might have made everything a little more difficult, because I got used to being home and being lazy haha.  Suffice to say, the first week back in class was tough!! It didn't really help that it was only a couple of weeks before finals so all the professors were cramming in last bits of information.  I was better off than quite a few of the other people, though, because they passed their entire breaks in Portugal or Greece or Italy, not speaking one word of French, whereas I spent most of my time in Morocco, speaking French often.  I don't, honestly, remember a whole lot about that week, though -- it all went by in kind of a haze...
One thing I remember very clearly, however, happened in about 15 seconds on that Tuesday morning.  I was going to meet Mira in her building (which is across from mine) so that we could walk to class together.  It was raining and so, of course, I had my umbrella- which is printed to resemble a giant sunflower- out.  As I entered the building and was pulling my umbrella down, a woman walked past me on her way out and very quickly said "C'est jolie, votre paraplouie!" ("Your umbrella is pretty!") and I turned and said "Merci!" without thinking much of it.  As soon as my mind processed what had happened, though, I felt absolutely fantastic, because that was the first time that I could legitimately tell how far my French had progressed since I got here.  At the beginning of the semester I would have had to stop her and ask her to repeat what she said or would have just smiled at her and then spent the next ten minutes going over it in my head, trying to figure out what she had said... I didn't have to do any of that, though! My response was fluid and it felt so good!!! I spent the rest of that day in a fantastic mood.
 On Wednesday, we had a fin du semestre party in writing class.  It was amazing!! Our professor, Mme Hubert, brought some gummy treats and home-made apple tartes and a couple bottles of cidre for us to celebrate a lovely semester together.  We all talked and laughed and put on "spectacles" which was basically just a horrible form of karaoke and all of the Americans had fun making asses of ourselves haha. It was a good time!
That Saturday, I went out with Mira and Brittany and Elizabeth to a nice restaurant/bar called Tai Pan (I've mentioned it before) to have a few drinks and catch up with each other.  We stayed there for a couple of hours and had a really nice time! Just as we were getting ready to pay at the bar, we decided to all take one  shot. The bar had some specials that were only 2€ each and Brittany, Mira, and I ended up getting flaming shots!!! It was kind of freaky but they were really good! The liquor was mostly Bailey's so it was very smooth.  We sat there talking for a few minutes and actually managed to all get free shots of the bartender's favorite whiskey! It was quite yummy.  After that, we went to meet a couple of friends at one of the other bars and ended up gathering a pretty big group!! We didn't stay there long, but instead moved on to one of the clubs (the one called "Chez" for my readers who are previous Caen-ers) to dance off the alcohol we had consumed.  We stayed a couple hours there, dancing our tails off.  It was a fantastic time and we all left dripping sweat and grinning.   Mira and I had just sat down in the lobby of her building for some quality girl-talk time, when my mum called with amazing news!!! I had a new baby brother!!! It's possible that I woke up the people on the floor above us with my squeals of happiness haha.  Everything went fairly quickly and smoothly and he was a healthy, nine pound baby!! His name is Jackson David Pudas and I'm so excited to meet him!! He's already making lots of funny faces and being generally adorable.
Isn't he just the cutest thing?? I love him already!
Alright, now that you've had your daily dose of cute, I'll go back to the boring stories of Caen.  We only had two weeks of actual class after break, then we had one week of "rattrapage," which means that any classes we missed during the semester because of holidays or the teacher being sick had to be made up that week.  None of this silly "free day off" for the French! Thankfully, we only had a couple of classes to make up, so we had most of the week off to do whatever we liked. Many people used that to do some extra traveling, but I didn't feel quite confident enough in my bank account, so I hung out in Caen and fell back into horrible laziness until the weekend, when I started studying for my finals, of which I had NINE. 
In an attempt to stave of the inevitable, Mira, Meagan, Karima, and I all decided to go to the fair that was in town for a couple of weeks! We walked because it was a beautiful day, but we weren't entirely sure where the fair was, so we stopped at a giant poster and pulled out a city map to look.  When we did, a young French couple stopped and asked where we were trying to go.  When we told them the park (where the fair was being held), they said we should definitely take a bus because it was way too far away to walk.  They were having a difficult time explaining which line to take so we told them they could switch to French, which surprised and relieved them haha.  Then they asked if we were going to the fair.  When we said yes, they went "OHHHHHHHHH well you can walk there!!!! (*mental eye-role and forehead slap*) just go this way and that way-" "-no no go this way then that way-" "-no this way works-" ... That continued for about ten minutes and by the time we thanked them and they walked away, we were more confused than when they stopped.... Thankfully, we met up with Karima and she knew the way, so we just followed her haha.  I was expecting the fair to be a lot smaller than it turned out to be.  The place was actually pretty huge... We went on a few rides and played some claw games and Mira and I went into a horror house (and came out screaming bloody murder haha).  We got ice cream and cotton candy and salted nuts and generally had a lovely time.  Our last ride was the giant ferris wheel, which was visible all the way across town.  Karima tried to stay at the bottom, because she's scared of heights, but we made her come along anyways and I think she ended up having fun haha. Afterwards, we walked back towards home singing the Spice Girls at the top of our lungs through the quiet streets - we got a couple guys in a car to sing along with us too!! We stopped over at Karima's apartment to warm up, drink a little juice, and chat and then went back to campus.  It was an all around wonderful day.
I was very stressed over my finals, but they ended up being better than I expected.  That's not to say that they were easy at all!! They were fricken hard, man!!! I left, for the most part, a little more confident than I went in, though, so that's good, I guess.  I won't know how I did until at least June and I'm not even sure I'll know then.  My grades might go straight to UND without coming to me first.  Our grades for this semester are pass/fail though, so I won't actually get to know if I passed with a C or an A, just that I passed, which kind of sucks and is also absolutely fantastic at the same time!! Haha
On Thursday, we had a holiday (don't ask me why... the French just love their little holidays haha) so I went with my "French Mom," Marie-France (remember I told you guys I signed up to be paired with a French family way back when? Yeah.) to the Normandy D-day beaches!
 *At the American Cemetery Memorial*
It was a really cool experience!! Even though it was windy and cloudy and a little cold, I got to speak French for 6 hour straight and I learned a lot about the D-day operations. It was very awe-inspiring. We went to three of the landing points- Arromanches, Port en Bessin, and Pointe du Hoc- all of which are on the American beach Omaha. 
We also got to see a couple of really cool museums, the first of which was devoted mostly to the landings and the technical things like how they managed it as well as displaying all of the memorabilia like the different uniforms and gadgets and all the different kinds of medals from the war.  The second museum was at the American cemetery and was devoted to the stories of the soldiers.  This one I had a really hard time getting through without crying.  I almost couldn't make it when we had to walk down a hallway with speakers down the whole length and a woman's voice listing all the names of the soldiers.  It was all very quietly intense...  We had a lovely lunch of veggie (after I picked out the chicken haha) salad that Marie had brought along and it was a really great way to spend the day.  I'm so glad I met Marie and got to know her a little, though I wish I had been able to spend more time with her.  Maybe when I come back to France ;P
We got a huge group together on Friday after everyone had finished finals and went out drinking and dancing to celebrate the end of hell week.  It was really fun and we all had a great time, but this is when it really hit me just how much I'm going to miss everyone here.  I'm so horribly torn between not being able to handle the homesickness, being so excited to go home that that's all I can think about and being absolutely depressed over the knowledge that I have to leave these beautiful people and these beautiful places.  It could be years before I see any of my "france friends" again or it could be never and I don't know if I can handle that, but at the same time, it's been so long since I've seen my family and my best friends and I have a new member of my family to meet.  I-DON'T-KNOW-WHAT-TO-DO-OR-HOW-TO-FEEL. I only have nine days left before I leave and I'm trying to make the most of it, but my mind keeps flip-flopping so much that I'm getting motion sick!! I don't expect that this will go away...In fact, I'm pretty sure that it's only going to get exponentially worse as my flight time draws nearer and it might even persist after I've gotten home, but I guess that's a sign of time and love well-spent, right? Right.
This week, we have two DELF exams, which basically tell the University whether or not we gained the crucial skills to pass the semester rather, whereas the final exams showed if we had learned enough in each class.  I just took the oral part of the DELF today and I aced it!! My final exam for my oral class was with Mme Geslot, who is one of my favorite professors here, and my DELF oral exam was with Mme Levitoux (aka Blinky), who is my other favorite prof!! I monologued for about 10 minutes straight about the grading system in schools and its pros and cons and she nodded along, smiling, and only corrected me a couple of times, which is a big thing with her because she's our oral professor and she corrects EVERY LITTLE MISTAKE. I walked out of there with my head held high.  The next part of our DELF is on Thursday and consists of listening comprehension, reading comprehension, and writing.  It shouldn't be too difficult, but I don't like the anticipation of it all the same...
I have lots of fun things planned for this week, but you all will just have to wait until this weekend to hear about them!! Muahahaha >=] I promise to be better and actually post on time this week!!
À bientôt mes amis!
Gros bisous!! 
Morgan

A new, fantastic point of view

Hey guys!!
I'm sorry I'm such a horrible blogger...I said I would post about the first part of my spring break and here we are, how much later??? with no new posts!! Ahhh! Well, I'm going to fix that now. 
We, here in France, had a two week long spring break between April 7th and April 21st.  I spent the first nine or so days of that in Casablanca, Morocco with Kirk and Sarah and their three boys (my uncle/aunt/cousins)! It was absolutely amazing! My trip started off well with a very interesting flight in haha.  My flight left from Orly, which I had never been to, so it was a little adventure just getting there.  I ended up helping a couple of German girls, who didn't speak French well, navigate the metro and RER towards the airport.  Once I was there, I people watched for a couple hours while I waited for boarding to start.  I had a layover in Lisbon, Portugal and the flight there was fairly uneventful, except for when the lady next to me spilled her meal everywhere and they gave me a meat-filled meal instead of the vegetarian one that I had requested... Oh! I did think I was going to die on the decent... The turbulence was awful!!! Once I was in Lisbon, I started people watching again and realized that Portuguese is The weirdest language Ever!!! It sounds like Spanish, Russian, and German had a baby!! A woman tried to say something to me and I think the look of shock and utter confusion on my face surprised her haha.  Thankfully, they repeated all the announcements in both French and English as well (though, with their accents, I had just as difficult a time understanding the English as I did the Portuguese haha).  I got really excited when I saw them refilling a Pepsi vending machine nearby, hoping that I could finally have a Mountain Dew after three months, but when I went to check, it was stocked with Fanta and bottled water...I was very disappointed.  I also found a very interesting guy to watch at the gate (people watching is a national sport in France; it's not considered rude at all to stare at the people around you. This is a habit I have definitely picked up and definitely had to break once I got to Morocco haha).  He was fairly attractive and I wasted a lot of time trying to figure out what language he spoke, because he was reading a magazine that had some sort of Cyrillic script on it. 
When we were finally allowed to board, we had to take a shuttle from the gate to a back part of the airport.  When the driver stopped we all gave a little bemused chuckle -- The plane had propellers and barely looked big enough to hold all 17 of us, much less lift us into the air... There were twenty seats on the plane including those for the pilot and co-pilot.  My seat was in the very back and, as it turns out, I was seated right next to the guy I had been watching for the past two hours! We joked a little in English about how small the plane was and wondered if we would make it to Casa alive.  After the plane started we could barely hear ourselves think much less talk anymore but we did catch eyes every once in a while and smile. 
We did make it to Morocco alive and well.  Actually, the flight on that little puddle jumper was more comfortable (excluding the noise levels) than the airbus I took into Lisbon... Who'dda thunk? After we landed, we all went and waited in line for about half an hour to get our passports stamped and then another twenty minutes for our luggage to come out.  While we were waiting for our luggage, I got to talk with that guy some more. I found out his name was Miro and he was from Bulgaria.  He was in Casablanca for a tennis tournament because he was a manager for a few of the players and he came out every year.  He was very interesting and nice and it was a great way to start off my visit!!
When I finally saw Kirk in the lobby, I had the biggest grin on my face! It was so wonderful to see him after so long and to see family after so long!! I was introduced, right away, to the Moroccan way of driving.... And I used to be scared of driving in the States.... Oy... There are almost no rules on those roads and it's completely expected for everyone to be horribly rude to one another... When turning left, you sit in the middle of the road and wait, expecting everyone else to go around you.  It was terrifying.  Kirkie and I talked lots though and caught up.  He told me a little about Casablanca and what I could expect during the next week or so.  I learned the next day from Sarah that if I looked at a man for more than a second or two it would be considered a sexual advance, especially since I'm a white, westerner.... My people watching habit was a hard one to break haha. It was really nice to see Sarah and the boys that first night and I got to meet Asher-John for the first time!! He's such a cutie =] It was a relief to be among family again.  That's the hardest thing about being here in France - being so far away from all of my family...
One thing that was really great about spending time in Casablanca was that I could still communicate because most of the people there speak French! I had some "French nights" with Kirk and Sarah where we attempted to speak only French for a couple of hours before bed and we watched a couple of French films like Amelie and Le Petit Nicolas, which I hadn't gotten around to seeing yet and they were amazing!  I also got to hear Oli speaking French!! He's getting so good and it's so cute to hear his little voice switch back and forth from English to French.  He understands it really well and he's picking up all the little nuances. I wish I had started that early - everything would be so much easier!! 
It was also really cheap there compared to France.  The exchange rate was almost 11 Dirhams to one Euro!! Of course, everything looked like it was more expensive because it was 35DH or something like that but that meant that it was only about 3€, so after I got used to doing the conversion, it was really nice.
While I was there, we ate lots of yummy foods that didn't involve pasta (hallelujah!!!) like taco salad with black beans instead of hamburger (I'd never thought of this, even while I was in the states! New recipe!! haha) and felafels (mmmmmmmnumnum X] I still need to get this recipe) and homemade onion rings (I need this recipe, too haha), yummy pizza, Moroccan breads and Edam cheese, buckwheat crepes, tomato soup and - the piece de resistance - Moroccan mint tea.  I became so addicted to this that I brought 3 boxes home haha! It's so delicious!!! It was hard to come back to France and a steady diet of pasta after all that...
We went to a restaurant called Sqala for brunch one day. It's a very Moroccan restaurant - the decor, the food, everything.  It was a beautiful day and the restaurant was beautiful with a fountain and lots of foliage on the patio and the sun shining through everything.  The food there was delicious and it was a lovely time out =] We also went to a small place by the beach called Natty Natty a couple of times.  The first time, the boys and I played on the beach while we waited for buckwheat crepes.  The second time, we went back after a day out and we all got delicious, homemade ice cream!!
We went to a couple of different beaches while I was there, because it was almost always sunny and warm.  One was the beach by Natty Natty, which was very sandy and fun -- great for building sand castles and writing in the sand. The other we spend the day at- I got sunburnt, of course- and had a great time.  The tide was fairly low and there were lots of rock formations to climb all over and small, warm pools to play in.  We found and collected tons of seashells and had a yummy picnic.  The only bad part of that day was that I accidentally dropped my camera into one of the little pools, which is why you haven't seen any photos from Morocco yet... When I get home, I'll be able to use Mum's computer, which has an SD card slot that fits mine and I'll upload lots of beautiful pictures!!
We also had lots of games that went on throughout the week. One was the "arrow game" with Oli mostly but Nico joined in occasionally as well.  We would each make something - a drawing, a fortune teller - for the other to find, hide it, then lay colored pencils out like arrows leading to a treasure.  I lost count of how many times we played, but it was fun to spend time with Oli, getting to know him.  I also had a marathon Sudoku battle going with Kirk.  It started when I bought a little Sudoku booklet at the corner store so I would have something to do with my travel/down time.  It ended up turning into a nightly (and sometimes morning...ly) ritual and even Oli got in on it! The level 4 Sudoku's were a little too hard for him, though, so I bought him a level 1 booklet and he picked it up really quickly!! I was very impressed.
I was there over Easter, which was really nice, because I haven't ever had to spend a major holiday away from family and I don't want to start now!! I met lots of Kirk and Sarah's friends and one family came over the day before to dye Easter eggs, which was really fun, if a little messy.  On Easter, we went to "church" at a friend's house, which was a little awkward for me, not really knowing anyone and not being religious, but it was still cool to see how they deal with forming a Christian community there in such a solidly Muslim culture.  Plus, Kirkie made it a little easier with some well placed jokes haha.  Everyone there was very friendly, though, and it was a nice way to spend Easter.
I also got to meet another of their friends named Hasna! She was very kind and invited us all over for tea at her house! The tea and food was all delicious -- she even made a vegetarian pizza for me and Oli! We spoke in French and all talked and laughed for a couple of hours and it was really great. =] She seems like the type of person that I could become good friends with, if I had more time to get to know her.
While I was there, I got to see both Kirk and Sarah's work places! The American school where Kirk works is big and beautiful.  It looks nothing like the schools that I'm used to. All of the hallways are open to the sky and it's all white-washed stone and green plants.  Sarah works at an organisation called INSAF, which helps unwed mothers gain skills to support themselves and their babies and also gives them a place to live while they're pregnant and just after the baby is born.  Sarah teaches English to the women who work there so that they can explain their mission to English speakers who come through and would like to know more.  I went with her one day and we were hoping that I could be a test dummy and see how they deal with English questions, but we ended up barely even speaking English because the women had lots of things on their minds that they really wanted to talk about.  It was really fun, though, to get to meet the women that Sarah works with and see how strong they are in a male dominated culture.  They were very cool women.
I got to see lots of different types of shopping centers while I was there.  We started with the new mall that was just recently built not far from where Kirk and Sarah live.  I also found out, after I got back to Caen, that my friend Karima has a house not very far from there! It was very big and very shiny...(they have a thing with clean floors there) there was a large aquarium in the middle and apparently a fountain that goes off every hour outside, but we were never there at the right time to see that.  After that, we went to the tourist market and shopped around for souvenirs.  Every time I entered a little shop, the shop keeper would come over to me and whisper conspiratorially, saying that it was the "salon d'Ali Baba." It made me laugh really hard but apparently that works with the tourists! Then, we went to the more local market and looked around. It was very different, much more closed with lots of tight corners and little alleys.  Oli and I ended up buying jalabas, which are the traditional dress/cover/robe thing and they are very beautiful.  The one I bought is a purple satin and I like wearing it around the house as a robe. Oli's is pale yellow and stripped. It looks awesome on him with his pale pale yellow hair.
Kirk and Sarah also took me to see the biggest mosque in Casablanca! It was breathtaking... The blue tile designs and the huge pillars and the giant wooden doors... We weren't allowed to go inside, but we got a peek in and saw the beautiful chandeliers and wide open spaces.  When we were leaving, the call to prayer went out from the tower and it sent chills down my spine, it was so cool!! I'm pretty sure I stood there, transfixed, for a full minute.
All in all, it was a truely amazing trip! I'm so glad I went and got to see everyone and meet new people and discover a totally different culture for myself. 
I know I'm probably forgetting a few things, but I'll come back and edit a little bit later.  For right now, I just want to leave this here for you all to have something to read, so you know I'm not dead haha.
À bientôt mes amis!
Gros bisous!! 
Morgan